Jacob

To whom it may concern... i just have a "few" thoughts about your website i'd like to rant and rave if you don't mind... i'll try to control my language but you can edit it all or nothing if it so pleases you. Aweomse site by the way it's very interesting (i find anyway) to read school teachers views and thoughts.

Just coming out of highschool and such i had one REALLY good teacher that taught me sex-ed even though she wasn't supposed to in the middle of english class soem kids were joking around about somehting i can't remeber and she said "ok you know what? let's all have a talk because this morning i had a grade 8 girl ask me the best way to give head to a boy". Now i know what your thinking that shocked the f**king s**t outa me and then i realized that really... that's only a few years 4 years between grade 8 and 12. Some people date people 10 12 years there senior or younger and my parents are 5 years apart so maybe i'm just used to it and 4 years is a big differance but whatever. So anyway my entire class of about 30-35 kids (actuall class size more like 50 with a teacher's aid but see my previous rant on what not to do when there's someone dressing down or punching kids in the hall) shut up. that's an amzing feat mind you. then she told us to ask her any questions concerning sex at all ever and she would answer.

Right away a few of the guy's asked some stupid questions like i heard you can make a condom out of tin foil? they high fived each other and so on but one of the girls asked does plastic wrap work? everyone laughed at that but hey in a pinch does it work or not? my teacher answered no and blah blah but then she let us ask her questions and joke about whatever and didn't bother us about termonology and what we should be calling a man's penis and what we shouldn't be calling it. Whenever one of us said something that wasn't ture or just a bit off she would step in and say nope it dosn't work like that and this is what you do... Compareing that to my actuall sex-ed classes in junior high when i attended a certain catholic school. My teacher did almost the same thing with the questions, she got us all to write them down (with no names of course) and stick them in a box then she would read them out loud, A great and awesome way i think to start. When it came time to open the box and read some though it went down hill from there... there were some questions that made her blush and some that made her so pissed off that she left in a mad rush out of the class room. Now of course everyone wants to see why the teacher got so mad so we all go up and look and the question was "why are there flavoured condoms". a simple question witha simple answer such as because some times people like to orally plaesure there partner or something would have sufficed. The girl that wrote the question down got in big shit from her parents and the school (she was the only that used a pink pen go figure eh?) so i think in reality adults need to grow up.

if you look at statistics about pornoghraphy almost 50% of the looking at pron as it is sometimes called is done by CHILDREN yes people kids are not the holy virginal creatures you take us for sometimes in fact i walked in on a cetain member of my family doing a solo act to the t.v. and he was many years short of being 18. In fact i will now link you a website with statistics, i don't know about there credibility but i do know as an 18 year old that kids OFTEN get into adult things becuase of there parents or some clumsy adult leaving things laying around that shouldn't be laying around. I once was forced by my dad to clean up (a dog or something ripped it up.. more likely an angry parent/spouse) a playboy magazine the thickness of a telephone book in a nearby playground! Needless to say i learned alot that day at the ripe age of 9 about the joy of reading. While cleaning this up my friends (roughly 12 kids my age) came to help me and a few of them as young as 6 i believe. I clearly remeber a girl my age picking up the most entact pages and stuffing them into her pockets. When asked by all the other kids what she was doing she shrugged and left (after grabbing several more). So maybe this is my own messed up Childhood but i think that this is somewhat the norm i have been over to kids houses where the kids of the house promptly showed me there dad's collection of "reading material". Some of you may blame the internet for such lewd acts for showing so many children porn so easily. If that child is so innocent how do you think he/she found those internet sites? Most sites that kids go to are gaming sites and such and as a frequenter on amany of those websites i can guarantee you that no adult popups shall force demonic wrath upon your child.

Rewinding to sex-ed again... is it any wonder kids have so many unanswered questions about what is right and what is wrong? And asking your parents about sex... hmm yea that's an awesome way to get yourself grounded from playing with a good friend who's parents are shady so says your parents who've never met them. Or an equally awesome way to get grounded off the televsion or computer for vast amounts of time. Trust me i know after i found that magazine i started asking all kinds of questions just casualy wanting to know about life right? i got yelled at and told to go to my room for something i didn't even know about. and again i know friends that have parents like mine. and no my parents are'nt evil or hardcore old fashioned... my mother is in fact gay and proud to be and my father is just an average dood living his life. What i'm trying to say is threw this big massive rant is that people need to get into the nitty gritty detail about sex with SOME kids and the other kids i believe should be gently eased into it and for those of you that say they shouldn't be taught at all?. i have learned through my friends more experianced with me as about what to do and how somehting works and such and we all know how accurate friends are on some things as much as they try to be. So i say an adult should tell them what is and what isn't about sex. Stop avoiding it in schools because it's all around us in the music kids like to listen too (good example Ludacris "what's your fantasy", Eminem Feat. nate dawg "shake that" and Techno "Ulitimate sex track") and books we read... i read a crapload of novels and such everything from Anne Rice to R.A. Salvatore (and his books are way better that tolkeins ever will be) and these boks have smatterings of sexual content also. So anyway thank you for reading my long winded rant about my life's encounters of the sexy kind hahaha. Thanks =D